Why are you so special...

I was noticing that there seems to be an inequality in emotional expression among the genders. A woman has a hard day and she gets sympathy or extra slack on her behavior because she is a woman. If I have a hard day and I express it in some emotional outburst I get all kinds of shit.
Why is it that I an not allowed to break apart and she is? I have days where all I want to do is cry and o have others where I want to put a bullet in the head of every panda that wont fuck to save its species. I just hate sometimes and that's me as a man. How many women can handle that? I would like to count them cause I am going to say I could use both my hands and still have one to drink a Pepsi. Not only do I think that on some level are they weaker but they are also ill-equipped to handle the full spectrum of a real man. Take a strong willed woman and pair her up with any real man and he will more then likely be able to withstand her ups and her downs and most of her emotional quips and stupidities. A real woman put into a similar situation will more then likely be crushed by the intensity of the raw emotions of a real man.
Let me say that the majority of both genders are neither real at their core nor are they going to have the courage to show it if they are. What I feel I am more addressing is not a gender inequality but more a human fault. Those who are real know what I am talking about and those who are not will only see the surface misogynist argument that can be made. I don't want to hear from you if you are one of those people. You are not real and have yet to take your first breath as an adult. Those who see this as more a problem with humans in general will understand that you just cannot be real sometimes. People cannot handle the depth to your every word and cannot venture down the dark corridors of your mind without going mad. You know this because talking to the "Average Joe" is akin to inadvertently feeding a newborn baby a steak sandwich. It doesn't work. They love the taste of what your saying but they just cannot digest it. They attempt to consume it in front of you and then they spit it back out as "just too much" in the end. Realists have all at least once lead someone who is just too immature introspectively down the path of self realization only to watch them fall apart in the end and go back to their ignorant ways. Ignorance is bliss but its not an excuse.