To determine a name

There is a process I think should be made known about names. when person is born they know nothing of language or the physical identifiers, dynamic consciouness labels or what ever you look at as your name. As you grow older and wiser with every moment you strech what you knew the preceeding moment. At one point you learn what you are called by those around you and what or how to call on them. At another point you learn that everything has been assigned a refrence point by which to call on or refer to that thing and you begin to speak by relating to things. There was a point in my own life where my name no longer suited me but on the advice of my parents, I never changed it. What I am getting at and I no longer want to take the time to explain is this. Your name is not always what people will call you. Its more important then you think but less important then you will ever know. Soak in your individuality for now but remember that to more then one person you are just that loser on the corner.